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Ep 040 - No Matter How Diverse, We All Breathe the Same Air

This episode is especially for anyone in a leadership position — teachers, coaches, managers, etc. It's a great reminder that by helping others — YOU will be more fulfilled. Conversely, by taking care of yourself — THOSE AROUND YOU will be more fulfilled. Again, the duality of yin and yang is present.

Raul and Julie, husband and wife, are two martial arts students from HKA. They join Sensei Hoover and Steve Mittman to talk about the opportunities teachers have to change lives. Julie has been a teacher for many years and has used her position to positively affect countless students — in numerous and various ways. She's able to do these things — major to minor — because she comes from a source of mental, physical, and spiritual strength. She has this strength because she does what it takes to nurture it. Because she is "in a good place," she has "it" to give to others. She takes her role as an educator very seriously, as all teachers should. Listen and you'll see for yourself. You'll also hear about:

  • How we breathe and bleed the same

  • Why we bow in class and to each other

  • How neither culture nor religion separate us

  • Why we wear the same uniform, and sometimes no belts

  • How our martial arts dojo is a microcosm of the larger world

  • Why Julie prefers the word “acceptance” over the word “tolerance”

  • The principle we all abide by is to work hard and strive to be the best we can be

  • Our own unique stories and backgrounds, yet how we are ultimately all the same

 

Our most basic common link is that we all inhabit this planet. We all breathe the same air. We all cherish our children's future. And we are all mortal. — John F Kennedy

 

What have you done to get to know someone and genuinely show your interest? How did they react? Comment below — or reach out and let us know privately with the Form on the right.

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Ep 039 - No Need To Act Tough, Find Your Comfort

We all need something that comforts us. If you don’t have someone, something, or some place — you MUST find one. Having a source of comfort allows one to handle uncomfortable moments. Just like the song “Turn! Turn! Turn!” says, “There is a season (Turn, Turn, Turn), and a time to every purpose under Heaven” — there is a time to be a “tough guy or gal” and a time to not be. Being kind, compassionate, loving, thoughtful, and considerate, does NOT make a person any less tough. In fact, embracing those traits makes us even stronger — stronger mentally, physically, and spiritually. Having a comfort zone is one of the ways you can deal with being uncomfortable.

No need to “act” tough. True strength comes from within when you own your space. A peaceful warrior is a good soul — a good person — and one who doesn’t care what others think about them.

What’s your source of comfort? You heard Sensei Hoover mention relaxing with his wife. Steve mentioned his daughter’s Hello Kitty thermos. Comment below — or reach out and let us know privately with the Form on the right.

Please leave a Rating and Review on Apple Podcasts. It’ll only take a minute! The more ratings, the more people will find the show, and hopefully we’ll be able to help the world get more comfortable. Android users — listen, subscribe, and leave a rating on Google Podcasts.