“A happy life consists not in the absence, but in the mastery of hardships.” — Helen Keller

For any task, you need the right tool to get the job done — for instance — a hammer for a nail, a screwdriver for a screw. Having the right tools and information makes success easier.

Tim and Steve discuss staying open to new tools, people, and experiences that push you to improve.

“Don't speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn't know the difference. Words are energy and they cast spells, that's why it's called spelling. Change the way you speak about yourself, and you can change your life.” — Bruce Lee

Tim Hoover and Steve Mittman explore the deeper meaning of living in a “ready stance” — staying aware, prepared, and self-reliant in a chaotic world. A lesson from martial arts that applies to everyday life, mindset, and personal growth.

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” — Aristotle

In this 400th episode of Attack Life Not Others, Tim and Steve reflect on 8 years of podcasting and over 600 episodes:

• They share lessons from their martial arts journey, including how tragedy reshaped teaching to focus on resilience, awareness, and positivity

• They address recent feedback from last week’s episode, reaffirming their commitment to honest conversations that uplift, challenge, and inspire

• This milestone episode is a celebration of growth, leadership, and the power of speaking from the heart

“Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.” — Robert Collier

Mindset and action are what Tim and Steve discuss, opening with the quote from Carl Jung: “You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do.”

Their message is clear: real growth requires consistency, effort, and a willingness to struggle. Change comes gradually, but only when mindset and actions truly align.

“Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.” — Vincent van Gogh

Habits — good or bad — are powerful. Steve shares a quote from Samuel Johnson: “The chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken.” It’s a reminder that habits can sneak up on us, and building the right ones takes effort but pays off in the long run.

Tim and Steve touch on how it usually takes a few weeks to make a new routine stick and how too many people give up before they see results. That’s why a strong foundation and a supportive community are key. Consistency, discipline, and community matter. Stick with the process, stay committed, and surround yourself with the right people.

“Pressure is a privilege” — Billie Jean King

Consider pressure to be a privilege. It doesn’t happen TO you, it happens FOR you. It means great things are expected of you.

Tim and Steve break down why keeping life simple makes things easier and more meaningful. They touch on Hick’s Law — the idea that too many choices slow us down — and show how focusing on a few core habits and skills leads to better results.

With personal stories and down-to-earth examples, the guys remind us that health, family, and simple moments matter most.